Every Single Person You Meet is Struggling


Question to Colonel Chris Hadfield (Canadian Astronaut)

Q: If you could make a phone call to the 20 year old Chris, what would you tell him?
A:

To recognize that every single person you meet is struggling.
I didn't know that then.
You tend to see other people as completely foreign individuals.
I still do sometimes.
But to recognize that everybody you meet, every single one of them, no matter how expensive their suit is or how serious their expression is, they are looking for significance.
They are trying to do the best they can and they fail regularly.
And they're within their own particular battle of their own life.
And so cut them some slack for that.
Don't let them off the hook but recognize the shared nature of being a human being.
And let people be themselves, make some allowances for them, treat people a little more kindly as a result.