Personal Notes on “Without and Within”

I was staying in a hotel in Thailand, and there was this book “Without and Within”, and I thought it was so fantastic that I must make some notes on my personal favourite extracts. You can download the book for free from: https://www.amaravati.org/dhamma-books/without-and-within/

Image: Without and Within by Ajahn Jayasaro: Questions and Answers on the Teachings of Theravada Buddhism

Blessings

The Dhamma = The truth of things/’the way things are’
Emancipate = To free from restraint, influence, or the like.
Admonish = To caution, advise, or counsel against something.

Not to associate with fools.
To associate with the wise.
To pay respects where they are due.
This is the highest blessing.

To reside in a suitable location.
To have previously done meritorious deeds.
To have set oneself on the right path (to emancipation)
This is the highest blessing.

To have much learning.
To be skilled and knowledgeable.
To be restrained by a moral code.
To have beautiful speech.
This is the highest blessing.

To support one’s parents.
To cherish wife and children.
To earn one’s livelihood without difficulty.
This is the highest blessing.

To be generous.
To live in accord with the Dhamma.
To assist one’s relatives.
To do blameless actions.
This is the highest blessing.

To cease and abstain from evil.
To refrain from intoxicants.
Not to be heedless of the Dhamma.
This is the highest blessing.

To be respectful. To be humble.
To be content. To have gratitude.
To hear the Dhamma at the right time.
This is the highest blessing.

To have patience.
To be easy to admonish.
Associating with monks.
To discuss the Dhamma at a suitable time.
This is the highest blessing.

To practice austerities.
To lead the Holy Life.
Seeing the Noble Truths.
The realization of nirvana.
This is the highest blessing.

A mind unshaken by contact with the world.
Sorrowlessness, stainlessness and secure.
This is the highest blessing.

Having accomplished this one is always unconquered, one goes everywhere in peace.
These are the supreme blessings.

What is enlightenment?

Enlightenment refers to liberation from suffering and the mental toxins or “defilements” that are its cause. It is the realization of the true nature of “the way things are”. An enlightened being understands the conditioned nature of impermanent phenomena and experiences nirvana, the unconditioned reality that lies behind it. The enlightened mind is characterized by wisdom, compassion, and purity.

Did the Buddha have a sense of humor?

The Buddha was aware that humor, judiciously employed, can point to the truth in delightful and disarming ways.

What are the Four Noble Truths?

1. There is suffering (dukkha)
Dukkha is generally translated as “suffering”, but in fact has a far more profound meaning than is implied by that word. Dukkha refers to the chronic unsatisfactoriness of unenlightened existence. It covers the whole spectrum of experience, from severe physical and emotional pain to the subtlest sense of unease and lack.

2. There is a cause of suffering
Suffering is not our unalterable human predicament. It is dependent upon certain causes and conditions, in particular upon the cravings that arise through a fundamental misperception of our human nature.

3. There is a cessation of suffering
There is a complete ending of suffering, a state of liberation and true happiness.

4. There is a path leading to the cessation of suffering
Suffering is comprehended, its causes abandoned and its cessation realized through cultivation of the Noble Eightfold Path. This path involves an education or training of every aspect of our lives, inner and outer. The eight factors are as follows:

1. Right View
2. Right Intention
3. Right Speech
4. Right Action
5. Right Livelihood
6. Right Effort
7. Right Mindfulness
8. Right Concentration

Please explain the Eightfold Path in more detail

1. Right View refers to beliefs, views, ideals, values that are in harmony with the way things are. Initially its most important elements are confidence in:
i) The human capacity for enlightenment
ii) The law of karma

2. Right Thought refers to thoughts consistent with Right View. These are characterized by a freedom from all kinds of toxic thinking, in particular that which is:
i) Sensual
ii) Hostile
iii) Cruel
Right Thought includes thoughts of kindness and compassion, and the aspiration to be free from all inner afflictions.

3. Right Speech is true, useful and timely speech that is polite and kindly in intent. It is speech free from:
i) Lying
ii) Harshness
iii) Slander
iv) Idle chatter

4. Right Action refers to actions that do not harm self or others. At its most basic it refers to refraining from:
i) Killing
ii) Stealing
iii) Sexual misconduct

5. Right Livelihood refers to livelihood that does not cause harm to self or others. Wrong livelihoods listed in the texts include the selling of:
i) Weapons
ii) Living beings
iii) Meat and fish
iv) Intoxicants
v) Poisons

6. Right Effort refers to the endeavor to:
i) Prevent unskilful thoughts and emotions that have not yet arisen in the mind from arising.
ii) Reduce and eradicate unskilful thoughts and emotions that have already arisen in the mind.
iii) Introduce into the mind skilful thoughts and emotions that have not yet arisen.
iv) Sustain and further develop skilful thoughts and emotions already present in the mind.

7. Right Mindfulness refers to maintaining an alert, even-minded and committed awareness of present experience, in particular:
i) The physical body
ii) The affective tone of experience: pleasant, unpleasant or neutral
iii) The state of mind
iv) Mental phenomena as they relate to the Buddha’s path of awakening

8. Right Concentration refers to the inner stability, clarity and peace experienced in four stages of “meditative absorption”.

Why do so few people seem truly happy?

One of the basic premises of Buddhism is that the more clearly we see the nature of things, the less we suffer, and the happier we become. Worldly happiness is fleeting and unreliable. The happiness of a cultivated mind is a lasting refuge.

Buddhists talk a lot about being in the present moment...

The more we are grounded in the present moment, the more uncluttered our mind becomes, and the easier it is to learn from past experiences and plan wisely for the future.

What is merit?

Merit refers to the inner purification that occurs through virtuous acts of body, speech and mind. Meritorious actions elevate and ennoble the mind, and are accompanied by a sense of well-being.
Generous actions are meritorious because they reduce the power of selfish attachment, and teach us the joy of giving. Keeping precepts is meritorious because it weakens the compulsion to harm ourselves and others, and because it accustoms the mind to freedom from remorse and to feelings of self-respect.

Is it correct that Buddhism teaches us to give up all desires?

Buddhism distinguishes two kinds of desire: the first (tanha) to be abandoned and the second (chanda) to be cultivated.

Tanha is the desire that arises from a basic misunderstanding of the way things are: perceiving permanence, happiness and selfhood where they do not exist. Desire for the pleasures to be had through getting, getting rid of and becoming is tanha. Tanha leads to personal suffering and is the basis of almost all social ills.

Chanda is the desire that arises from a correct understanding of the way things are. At its heart lies the aspiration for truth and goodness. Desire to do well, desire to act well, desire to act kindly, desire to act wisely - all desires based on an aspiration for the true and good, lead to personal fulfillment and healthy communities.

By looking closely at the raw experience of life, the distinction between desires that lead to genuine happiness - and those that do not - becomes increasingly clear.

What does it mean to “let go”?

Letting go occurs naturally when the trained mind is keen enough to perceive that there is nothing to be found in our direct experience which corresponds to the concept of “me” and “mine.”

“Me” and “mine” are not, however, mere illusions; they are extremely useful social conventions, and the Buddha taught that they should be respected as such. For example: the body is strictly speaking “not mine”, but that does not mean it should be neglected.

“Letting go” is also an idiom used for intelligent effort. Knowing that no effort we make exists in a vacuum, that it will always be affected to some degree by conditions over which we have no control, we let go of our demands and expectations for the future. We create the best possible conditions for reaching our goals, and then let go of the results.

Is Buddhism a religion or a philosophy?

Whereas the religions that grew up in the Middle East are essentially belief systems, Buddhism is a system of education.

What is the essence of Buddhism?

Liberation, freedom from suffering (dukkha) and its causes, is the essence of Buddhism.

Is Buddhism too focused on the individual and lacking in its social dimension?

The Buddha himself referred to his teaching as Dhamma-Vinaya, with “Vinaya” referring to means by which the external environment can be ordered so as to create the optimum conditions for the study, practice and realization of Dhamma.

In Thailand, the gods of the free market have come to exert far more influence than the principles of Vinaya. Short-term gains are generally seen as more practical and rewarding goals than long-term well-being.

What, in a nutshell, is the law of karma?

Put most simply: good actions have good results; bad actions have bad results. Actions provoked by toxic mental states rooted in greed, hatred and delusion contribute to future suffering. Actions flowing from wisdom and compassion contribute to future happiness.

Please illustrate the workings of the law of kamma

Every time we act with a coarse intention, we immediately become a slightly coarser human being. Every time we act with kindness we immediately become a slightly kinder person.

What does Buddhism say about rebirth?

He (The Buddha) spoke on various occasions about the different realms of existence and the conduct that led to rebirth in them.

The Buddha made it clear that no realm is eternal, and that rebirth in heaven realms, no matter how sublime, is ultimately unsatisfactory and comes to an end. He taught that for the fully enlightened being, there can be no more rebirth.

Do Buddhists believe in spirits?

The Buddha taught that all beings without exception are our fellow wanderers in the realm of birth and death, and as such they should not be worshipped or bribed with offerings. Buddhists are taught to cultivate an attitude toward non-human beings of respect and kindness.

Why is impermanence given so much importance in Buddhism?

Impermanence is the central feature of existence. Everything changes. Nothing stays the same. Nothing lasts. Although this may seem a trite observation, close investigation reveals how many of our thoughts, emotions, perceptions, desires and fears occur precisely because the truth of impermanence is constantly forgotten.

What is the meaning of not-self?

Buddhism teaches that far from being the solid centre of experience, the sense of self is created moment by moment, by means of an instinctive identification with aspects of experience - our body, feelings, perceptions, thoughts, emotions, sense-consciousness.

If there is no self, then what is reborn?

The teaching of not-self points to the fact that things exist as processes rather than as discrete objects. ... there is not a thing called a self that is reborn at the death of the body, but a process that manifests in a new and fitting form.

If there is no self, how can anybody be considered responsible for their actions?

Buddhism makes a distinction between reality and social convention. The idea of self is recognized to be a very useful, indeed indispensable, element of social life. In conversation, enlightened masters use the terms “I” and
“you” in the normal way; they answer to a name. The difference is that they recognise a convention as a convention and do not confuse it with ultimate reality.

The majority of Buddhist teachings deal with life on the conventional level. Personal responsibility is given a central role.

Is it not unnatural for monastics to be celibate?

Yes, if “unnatural” means acting in ways that override the most basic human instincts. But it is generally accepted that human civilisation has evolved to its present level precisely because of the human ability to go beyond the given, to be intelligently “unnatural”.

Why did the Buddha allow monks to eat meat?

The first and most important reason is that eating meat is not, in itself, considered blameworthy. The Buddha allowed monks to eat meat if they had not seen, heard or suspected that any living beings had been killed specifically to make the dish for them. In such a case, having made no direct contribution to the death of the creature, monks made no karma by consuming its flesh.

What does Buddhism have to say about human sexuality?

Wise people see sexual pleasure as highly addictive and cherish their freedom enough to prevent sex monopolizing their life, and unwisely influencing the choices they make.

Sexual desire is not seen as bad as such. It is, however, seen as being conditioned by ignorance of the way things truly are.

The fully enlightened ‘arahant’ experiences no sexual desire at all, and yet lives with a supreme and unshakeable sense of well-being.

Arahant = “one who is worthy” or as a “perfected person” having attained nirvana

How does Buddhism view love?

At its coarsest level love may be narcissistic and demanding; at its most sublime love is selfless and unconditioned. Buddhists are taught that the more their love inclines towards the selfish forms, the more they will suffer and the more suffering they will cause for their loved one; the more unconditional their love, the more it is based upon wisdom and understanding, the more happiness they will enjoy and the more they will be able to give to others.

Did the Buddha have any views on economic affairs?

By including “Right Livelihood” in the Eightfold Path, the Buddha recognized the role of economic activity in promoting individual well-being...

The Buddha emphasized the importance of making one’s living honestly and with a healthy motivation... When peoples’ minds are focused on the quality of their work itself rather than the material rewards it provides, they become more content, experience less stress, and do better work.

He (the Buddha) said that while expenditure should not exceed income, wise people use their wealth for the welfare of themselves and their families; they are generous to relatives and friends, and offer support to the needy. The Buddha referred to food, clothing, shelter, and medicine as the four requisites indispensable for a sustainable life... In Buddhist terms, the measure of an economy is to be found in the degree to which it can ensure access to the four requisites for all.

What is the Buddhist attitude to entertainments like cinema and sport?

Any activity that increases the strength of nourishing qualities in the heart and diminishes the strength of the toxic qualities may be mindfully pursued.

Buddhism teaches contentment. But if everyone was content with their life, how would human progress ever be achieved?

Whenever the Buddha spoke about contentment he paired it with an energetic quality such as diligence, persistence or industriousness.

Unenlightened beings commonly feel that they are missing out, that things they don’t possess would make them happier than the things they already have. Even when desire is fulfilled, the mind sated but the sense of lack found to be unchanged by the experience, this hope survives. Learning how to appreciate the merits of what we already possess allows us to let go of cravings, frustrations and jealousy. We set ourselves realistic goals and apply ourselves diligently to creating the causes and conditions for realization of those goals. But in the meantime, we enjoy, as far as possible, the present situation. For, it would be a sad thing to put all our hopes for happiness into a future that never arrives.

What does Buddhism teach regarding our relationship with the environment?

Our challenge as a species is to relate to the physical world in a way that best sustains its capacity to sustain us.

It means cultivating the will to refrain from certain kinds of harmful activities, to adopt a simpler, less wasteful way of life.

Is there a Buddhist approach to conflict resolution?

In Buddhism, violence is considered the least intelligent reaction to conflict.

The Buddha said that minds free from toxic mental states make the most intelligent long-term decisions.

What is the best way to deal with stress?

Given our responsibilities and the pressures upon us, feeling a certain amount of stress is probably inevitable. It is not always a bad thing, and hard to imagine how making positive changes in our life, abandoning old unwise habits, could be possible without any stress at all.

Nevertheless, it is possible to radically reduce the amount of stress we experience. It helps to simplify our lives as much as we can and learn to slow down a little. Bringing attention to the quality of our actions and speech reduces stressful interactions with others. A more judicial use of resources reduces stress over personal finances. Regular exercise ... alleviates much physical tension, and teaches us to breathe more naturally.

In Buddhism, how important is it to help others?

Altruism lies at the very heart of the Buddhism tradition. The blossoming of compassion is seen as the measure of an awakening mind. The two pre-eminent virtues possessed by the Buddha were wisdom and compassion.

Are violence or killing ever justified?

The short answer to this question is no. The Buddhist teaching on this point is unwaveringly clear. Whatever justification may be made for killing, if the volition to kill was present in the killer’s mind, then bad karma has been created which will lead to unfortunate consequences. The reasons for killing determine only the severity of the karma created.

“Hatred never ceases through hatred in this world; but through non-hatred it ceases. This is an eternal law.” - The Buddha

Are Buddhist countries completely pacifist?

Nevertheless, it is recognized that those involved in fighting a war of self-defence would not be free from bad karma. In this view, the heroism of members of the armed forces would reside in their voluntarily taking on bad karma and the future suffering that is its consequence for the sake of the nation.

Miscellaneous Quotes from the Book

“The Buddha never forced anyone to believe in him or to adopt his teachings. Those who listened to and pondered over his reasoning, feeling satisfied and in agreement with it, became his disciples through inspiration and conviction.” - Ajahn Thate

“When you finally realize that this empty room you perceive yourself to be in can never be truly empty until you - the observer of its emptiness depart from it - that is the moment when the fundamental delusion about your true self disintegrates and the pure delusion-free mind arises.” - Ajahn Maha Bua

“Take care not to follow ignorant people who say that Buddhism looks at the world in an overly pessimistic way. Buddhism teaches that suffering is to be seen, but what is to be felt and realized is happiness.” - P. A. Payutto

“(In Buddhism) the most essential meaning of the word ‘study’ is of the unceasing, dedicated observation and investigation of whatever arises in the mind, be it pleasant or unpleasant.” - Ajahn Buddhadasa

“People’s inner goodness may be observed from the way they express themselves externally through their actions and speech, but only by a thorough investigation conducted over a long period of time.” - Somdet Phra Budhacarya

“The way to extinguish desire…is to become a giver. Give regularly. The act of giving and the extinguishing of desire: they always happen simultaneously.” - Somdet Phra Nyanasamvara

“The true nourishment we get from things is the joy we feel from being able to give them away.” - Ajahn Lee Dhammadharo

“Self-honesty is the basis of moral virtue. Know yourself, accept your faults and work to overcome them. Hide nothing from yourself. Above all, don’t lie to yourself.” - Mae Chee Kaew

“If the mind is full to the top with ‘I’ and ‘mine’, truth-discerning awareness cannot enter; if there is truth-discerning awareness, the ‘I’ and ‘mine’ disappears…” - Ajahn Buddhadasa