I have learnt that the advice to "love everything with all your heart" is not good advice. Love and hate go together. Love cannot exist without hate, and hate cannot exist without love. Whilst there needs to be some balance, you certainly should love much more than hate, and there are unfortunately enough hateful people in the world to account for your net positive love..
To sum it up. You can't love everything. Otherwise you end up loving nothing making everything standard. In order to love you need a little hate. Which leads us onto the title of this post:
Love the Things that Exist in Your Life Which You Cannot/Will Not Let Go/Change
Basically, love the things in your life that are important to you.
A good example is work. We may not even like our jobs, but if we are not willing or unable to find another job, then we should learn to love our work. For it is a part of our life that is not going to change for the foreseeable future anyway.
If you have no plans to change you job, learn to love your job and put your heart and soul into it, like you should with all the things you love.
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| Let go of things you can't change. Focus on things you can. |